HAVING SEX WHEN YOU'RE FAT When you grow up thinking you are not desirable,you basically throw away the idea of finding love. The idea of having sex is even far-fetched and when you do fall in love and you want to take your relationship to next level, the insecurities you have with your body makes you doubt your choices. So many, literally so many thoughts run right,left and centre What should I wear? Would I even look sexy? I don't want him to see me naked. I can't see myself naked. How will he? What if he sees that my thighs jiggle and has stretch marks? What if he notices I wear spanks?What if I don't look good without make-up? Can I switch off the lights so that he doesn't see me? Oh, I need a blanket. That way I can cover myself. Will my weight hurt him if I'm on top? Will I be flexible enough for that position? Will he find me undesirable? Will he leave me if he gets to see the real me? Will I ever find somebody else to have sex with if not ...